It was December 2019. I was in
Bengaluru to meet my sister, who was about to leave for Delhi, to represent the
Karnataka and Goa Directorate of NCC, for the Republic Day Camp – 2020. We were
criss-crossing across the lanes of Bengaluru, in search of different stores,
doing some last minute shopping of necessities, for her; sometimes by cab,
sometimes on feet.
On the by-lanes of Bengaluru city, there was one thing that could not
escape my eyes. There was one thing, that in fact reminded me of the NIRD field visits, spent in the villages of Guntur and Nelapatla in Telangana state. There was one
thing that also made me nostalgic about my childhood days. That one thing, that had managed to take me to so many places all at once, was Rangoli! The beautiful Rangoli patterns drawn
in front of the houses, right in the heart of the IT capital of India!
I am not talking about the regular
tiny Rangoli designs that we all draw at the threshold of the home entrance or the
names of different deities written in front of the
Devghar. I certainly respect that and I am not denying the persistence needed
in drawing even these small designs. But at this moment, I am talking about the
ones that require diligence. Those, that are pure art! Those that make you stand still, in
awe of their intricacies. Those that warm your heart. Those that force one's
eyes to take a look at the house in front of which these have been drawn, just in an attempt to get a glimpse of
the lady who could achieve such a feat!
It was on one particular street of
Bengaluru, in front of a random house, that a resolve was made. The resolve was to
start drawing such intricate Rangoli designs everyday. I emphasize the word
‘everyday’ here. We all make beautiful Rangoli designs on special occasions and
festivals. But, to revive this beautiful art that most of our
grandmothers pursued on daily basis, I too had to attempt to do it regularly.
It was March 2020. Three months had
passed since my visit to Bengaluru, and the number of Rangoli designs drawn?
Nil.
In order to curb the COVID-19 pandemic, when the first phase of nationwide lockdown was
announced for 21 days, one of the first things I
thought about was the resolution made in December 2019. Here was an opportunity
to get to action! I decided to make one Rangoli design every day for the next 21 days , and I was not
going to repeat any.
The first one was drawn on 25th
March 2020, the first day of lockdown. I am completing this article on 25th
April 2020 and the 21st design was drawn today. Basically, it took
me 32 days to complete the resolution of drawing a new design everyday for 21
days. You would ask me why? Well, that is because there were some ‘No Rangoli
Days’ and there were some ‘Repeat Rangoli Days’…
This whole exercise taught me a few lessons. I will share those with you.
1. Its
easier to make a resolution, but difficult to implement it.
2. Just
because you fail to stick to every word of the resolution, it does not mean
that you should
completely give up on pursuing it.
3. Many
of the good things that may seem perfect to the audience, are in fact not so
perfect in the eyes of the performer.
4.‘Perfection’
is sometimes given too much importance.
5.‘Imperfection’
too needs to be highlighted.
6. Pursuit of perfection is good, as long as you do not get fixated on it so much, that your near-perfect performance does not see the light of the day, just because it was not completely perfect.
6. Pursuit of perfection is good, as long as you do not get fixated on it so much, that your near-perfect performance does not see the light of the day, just because it was not completely perfect.
On personal front, during the past 32 days, I noticed that every day, whenever I happened to go anywhere near the area where I had drawn Rangoli, I was happier. It reminded me that I had done something creative in the morning. It reminded me about the goodness in me. And this reminder furthermore, made me give my best in whatever I did… And this happened many times during the day! I experienced that having a hobby and pursuing it on regular basis can be very positive for one's mental health. So, that was the 7th lesson. The importance of a hobby for one's well-being has been given due importance by Union Public Service Commission. All the candidates who appear for the Personality test of Civil Services Examination, have to compulsorily mention what their hobby is and are asked detailed questions related to their respective hobbies. Being some of the toughest jobs that can be mentally straining and emotionally stressful, the significance of hobbies in the lives of civil servants cannot be undermined. I would say, hobbies indeed provide a positive and creative outlet for expressing one's emotions.
Talking about the front yard of the traditional Indian houses of the past, may be it was also a space equivalent to today's art
blog or a wall, where the women could update their 'status' and present their art before the world! Merrier must have been the
women who drew Rangoli everyday, happier must have been the guests who visited such houses, joyous must have been the homes!
Get a glimpse of the 21 Rangoli designs I drew (Infact, I drew 20 and my mother-in-law drew one of the 21, as part of my resolution!). I wish some of my happiness rubs off on you.
Get a glimpse of the 21 Rangoli designs I drew (Infact, I drew 20 and my mother-in-law drew one of the 21, as part of my resolution!). I wish some of my happiness rubs off on you.
